Sometimes it is easy for people to forget about themselves, always giving to others. In some instances this causes the giver to be taken for granted. I am here to tell you that if you fall into this category, your feelings, wants and needs are valid and should never be ignored. It is fine to help others, but always remember to refuel and refresh your own spirit or you will be no use to the others you love to help. #mm
This week I want to stress the importance of do overs. People make mistakes all of the time, but our quest for perfection leads us to believe we shouldn’t. I’m here to tell you that failing is normal. Picking yourself up and trying again is what separates successful people from failures. Don’t be afraid to try as many times as necessary to get it right. #mm
Many times we feel compelled to put our lives on hold to care for others. We also tend to feel guilty when want to follow a different path than what is expected of us. There is no shame in making yourself happy. If you aren’t happy, you certainly can’t make anyone else happy. #mm
Since there was a three day holiday, today is our UN-official Monday. There’s a quote by Dr. Seuss that says “Why fit in when you were born to stand out?” I have lived most of my life by this quote, even before I knew it existed. There was just something inside me that wanted to be different from the pack. Remember this when you’re feeling different from the rest:
There is someone for everyone. Enough of all this fat shaming or judging people based on appearance. Sexy is a state of mind. Confidence breeds sexy. Be confident in all you do and watch how desirable you become to others.