There’s an expression ‘When you snooze you loose’. I heard that this weekend and thought that is not always the case. Sometimes when you snooze you win. How? Because you stay out of drama. People these days are notorious for bringing others into their issues seeking validation, but we have to decide what issues are important to address and which ones to walk away from.
Sometimes we sit around waiting for other people to make us happy. At times we think if I only had enough money or if I could find the right person. We can’t fall into that trap. Happiness is not found through monetary things or in someone else.
Sometimes things look so bleak that we think we will never recover. 16 years ago the devastation that wreaked havoc on our country was tragic, but we are here today still standing. The hurricanes are battering out country right now, but once the eye of the storm passes we will pick ourselves up and start over. You are capable and never let anyone tell you any different.
At times the problems of the world seem overwhelming. It is easy to think we as individuals don’t have anything to offer. We tend to think, I am only one person and they need so much help, what can I do? Well I am here to remind you that you can make a difference. No matter how little we have there is always someone worse off. You may feel like you are only one drop in a limitless ocean, but what is an ocean but a multitude of drops?(Cloud Atlas)
A lot of times other people tend to tell us that we are not enough. They send the message that we don’t have enough experience or that we are not important enough to do the things we see others accomplish. I am here to tell you that is not the case. We are all capable of doing extraordinary things; things we never thought we could do.
Sometimes we allow other people’s negativity to change how we feel about ourselves and the things we want to accomplish. I am here to tell you don’t let this happen. Those people do not want you to succeed. They will never be happy for you and you are better off without their influence.
The world is in a weird state and we all need to be reminded that everyone has something to teach us. It may not be their intention. Sometimes it is simply reacting with quiet dignity and defying the stereotype. What is it that you can teach others?
At times we may feel nobody in the world gets us. Things we say and do are often taken out of context. Stay true to yourself. For every 10 that don’t get it there is that 1 who will. That’s all you need.
Sometimes it is easy for people to forget about themselves, always giving to others. In some instances this causes the giver to be taken for granted. I am here to tell you that if you fall into this category, your feelings, wants and needs are valid and should never be ignored. It is fine to help others, but always remember to refuel and refresh your own spirit or you will be no use to the others you love to help. #mm
This week I want to stress the importance of do overs. People make mistakes all of the time, but our quest for perfection leads us to believe we shouldn’t. I’m here to tell you that failing is normal. Picking yourself up and trying again is what separates successful people from failures. Don’t be afraid to try as many times as necessary to get it right. #mm