There’s an expression ‘When you snooze you loose’. I heard that this weekend and thought that is not always the case. Sometimes when you snooze you win. How? Because you stay out of drama. People these days are notorious for bringing others into their issues seeking validation, but we have to decide what issues are important to address and which ones to walk away from.
At times the problems of the world seem overwhelming. It is easy to think we as individuals don’t have anything to offer. We tend to think, I am only one person and they need so much help, what can I do? Well I am here to remind you that you can make a difference. No matter how little we have there is always someone worse off. You may feel like you are only one drop in a limitless ocean, but what is an ocean but a multitude of drops?(Cloud Atlas)
Sometimes we allow other people’s negativity to change how we feel about ourselves and the things we want to accomplish. I am here to tell you don’t let this happen. Those people do not want you to succeed. They will never be happy for you and you are better off without their influence.
The world is in a weird state and we all need to be reminded that everyone has something to teach us. It may not be their intention. Sometimes it is simply reacting with quiet dignity and defying the stereotype. What is it that you can teach others?
At times we may feel nobody in the world gets us. Things we say and do are often taken out of context. Stay true to yourself. For every 10 that don’t get it there is that 1 who will. That’s all you need.
Sometimes we feel as if we are stuck in our environment or that our destinies are pre-determined, but I think we all have choices. Your destiny is tied to the road you choose to take. You can always change where you’re going. Look at life like a GPS system. When you are lost, simply recalculate your route.